As society continues to evolve and face new challenges and frequent unsettling events, helping children develop respectful communication skills and resilience has never been more crucial.
With social media amplifying opinions and reactions, and natural and social events dominating the news, parents and caregivers must guide children on navigating these challenges thoughtfully and responsibly.
“Whether discussing sensitive topics online or coping with distressing current events, children look to the adults in their lives for guidance,” said Dr. Steve Arcidiacono, Boys Town Behavioral Health Specialist. “We need to teach them not only how to express their views respectfully but also how to process their emotions and reactions constructively.”
Tips for Raising Respectful and Resilient Kids
1. Teach Respectful Communication and Social Media Awareness
Children must understand that while expressing their opinions is healthy, doing so respectfully is essential. Encourage them to:
• Think before they post, remembering that social media is forever.
• Practice healthy debate in safe environments, such as family discussions or classroom settings.
“An impulsive post can have lasting consequences,” said Dr. Arcidiacono. “Help your kids ask themselves, ‘Am I okay with this being associated with me in the future?’”
2. Provide Reassurance During Challenging Times
When children are exposed to distressing events, whether online or in the news, provide comfort and support by:
• Reassuring them of their safety and emphasizing the protective role of trusted adults.
• Encouraging them to express their emotions through conversations, art, or play.
• Tailoring discussions to their age and development to provide appropriate context.
3. Maintain Stability and Monitor Well-Being
During times of uncertainty, routines provide a much-needed sense of normalcy. Ensure children have regular meals, sufficient sleep, and participate in school and family activities. Be observant of changes in behavior or emotions that might indicate deeper concerns.
4. Model and Teach Resilience
Children learn by observing adults. Demonstrate calm and respectful discourse, whether addressing sensitive topics or handling disagreements. Show them how to navigate complex emotions and empower them with strategies to manage stress, such as identifying trusted adults to turn to when they feel overwhelmed.
5. Foster Empathy and Safe Expression
Create opportunities for children to safely explore and express their thoughts, such as mock debates or guided family discussions. Encourage open communication, helping them understand that disagreements are natural and can be approached respectfully.
“As parents and caregivers, it’s our responsibility to model empathy, resilience, and respectful discourse,” added Dr. Connie Schnoes, Director of Boys Town Behavioral Health. “By fostering these skills, we prepare our children to navigate both the digital and real-world challenges they’ll encounter.”
For more resources on teaching children responsible social media use and coping with current events, visit boystown.org or contact Cara MacVane at 561.685.2342.
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